Grow up and get out of shape!
4/28/2008
Some 20 years ago I happened to run into the captain of my high school swimming team. We were both in our 30s at the time. I was still in fairly good shape at the time ... I was active in Masters' swimming and was doing a lot of bicycling. I had yet to fall into the sedentary rut that would lead to my weight problem. In high school, I had never been able to hold a candle to my teammate, but it was evident that this once slim and toned athlete had already become noticeably paunchy.

Although I already knew the answer just from looking at him, I asked him if he had kept up with swimming. He snickered and shook his head as if that were the most ridiculous question he had ever heard. I went on to tell him that I was involved in Masters' swimming. "Oh yeah?" he responded, clearly unimpressed. Implicit in his response was an unspoken "Grow up!" Clearly, to him, swimming didn't count for anything anymore. Now that his glory days of being a high school sports star were behind him, it was time to move on and devote all his time to his career, and keeping himself in shape was no longer a priority.

Despite the record number of people joining gyms and exercising, that's still the attitude that we fitness advocates face.  Somehow most Americans have the perception that exercise is childish and frivolous, while being sedentary is viewed the sign of a mature and responsible adult. In some quarters, being overweight is seen as a sign of prosperity.

I'm reminded of an Off-Broadway show I saw a while back, Stewart Parker's "Spokesong." The central character is a bike shop owner and an advocate of bicycle transportation. He approaches his city fathers with a plan to make bicycles a major part of the community's transportation plan. Following the meeting, he reports that the officials agreed that bicycling is an efficient, economical, clean, environmentally friendly form of transportation ... "But it's funny!''

Too many Americans see exercise that way ... it's funny! But there are worse things than being funny. Obesity, hypertension, depression and diabetes aren't funny. We need to convince our fellow Americans that working 18-hour days and leaving no time to attend to their personal health isn't responsible in the long run.

Sadly, not long after my encounter with my old teammate I began my descent on that slippery slope that led to my weight problem. Fortunately I eventually had the midlife crisis that led me to start working out and get back in shape. I can only hope that my teammate had his own midlife crisis before it was too late.

 weight loss, exercise, swimming
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OldeButGoode OldeButGoode
May 02, 2008
7:53 PM
The desire to be fit is a "Lifestyle" one has to be motivated to follow. Eating right and exercising are benefits that will last a "Lifetime". When I see men with a large belly I say "Never" !!

Hulbs Hulbs
April 30, 2008
10:29 AM
the great thing about staying in shape is that people will always think you are younger than you actual are. So it's fine to do all that 'childish' funny' exercise as you'll look so young! lol.

JimB JimB
April 28, 2008
5:30 AM
There's nothing like free weights for building lean muscle. That's how I lost my weight. Good luck with the triathlon. In my former life I did a couple of mini triathlons...half mile swim, 14 mile bike and 4 mile run. I've never been a very good runner, but at the time I was doing a lot of swimming and biking, so I did well in those two legs, then watched all the runners pass me like I was standing still.

runningbear runningbear
April 28, 2008
5:26 AM
I'm sure it's harder when there are health issues involved. My husband never saw fitness as a priority, so allocating money for a gym membership was out of the question. That's why running worked so well for me - the only cost involved is a good pair of shoes. I also swim laps at a local community college pool, so I pay next to nothing to swim for an entire quarter. I own several sizes of free weights for sculpting, and my son has a set of weights, and I'm wanting to have him be my "trainer" (he's 17) and teach me how to lift properly. There's a limit to what can be accomplished with light free weights. I'm in really good physical condition, and not just for someone my age, but I always want to push myself to do more, make gains. I'm really aiming to do a woman's triathlon before I turn 50.

JimB JimB
April 28, 2008
5:14 AM
My wife's taking about 14 prescription drugs and they have to be reacting with each other. She's got no energy. She joined a gym herself but never goes. She seems to think that somehow just paying your dues will help you get fit.

runningbear runningbear
April 28, 2008
4:59 AM
I KNOW I'm not "out there" for wanting to stay fit, nor am I in the vast minority. I actually wish he'd at least try and walk, change his eating habits, something. Once you've gained that weight, lost that muscle tone, it's so much harder to get it back. I had my last child in my 40s and I absolutely have to stay fit and active in order to have enough energy to keep up with her. Plus I've met a lot of women friends through her, obviously much younger than I am, but I seem to have much more in common with them than women my own age.

JimB JimB
April 28, 2008
4:45 AM
We're in the same boat. My wife says I'm obsessed. But she sure finds plenty of time to watch TV!

runningbear runningbear
April 28, 2008
4:42 AM
I don't even care if I show them up. Heck. I'll set the example. I weigh about the same as I did in hs but I'm actually stronger than I was back then; I work a lot harder. My husband thinks I'm obsessed, says no one has the time to run or workout as much as I do, and I told him that simply isn't true. It's not a matter of how much time you have, it's how you allocate it. If staying f it is a priority you'll make time to workout.

JimB JimB
April 28, 2008
4:24 AM
That's the spirit, Bear! My 35th-year college reunion is coming up, and I'm so looking forward to showing up the former college jocks who are now middle-aged couch potatoes!

runningbear runningbear
April 28, 2008
4:06 AM
I was having a similar conversation with a friend of mine a couple of weeks ago. He attended a hs reunion last summer and was shocked at how so many of his old classmates, including his track buddies, had aged and settled into a sedentary lifestyle. Not that we see young faces staring back at us in the mirror, but most people who don't know how old I am are shocked to find out. My friend and I are both of the mindset that we're going to grow old "kicking and screaming all the way, baby" and staying fit and active is definitely part of our game plans.

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