Reasons Men Cheat ?? Not SEX !!
sex, marriage, love, self esteem
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In a new study and book "The Truth About Cheating" written and conducted by marriage counselor M. Gary Neuman, 92% of men said it "wasn't "primarily about the sex. "The majority said it was an emotional disconnection, specifically a sense of feeling underappreciated. A lack of thoughtful gestures," Gary says. "Men are emotional beings. They just don't look like that. Or they don't seem like that. Or they don't tell you that." Gary says its easy for couples to drift away from appreciating one another like they should. He says the other woman often makes the man feel better about himself. "(She) makes them feel different. Makes them feel appreciated, admired, he says. "men look strong, look powerful and capable. But on the inside, they are insecure loke everybody else. They're searching and looking for somebody to build them up to make them feel valued.
Gary adds it's not about blaming the wife. Cheating is ridiculous and wrong. The book is about empowering woman with knowledge to lead to a better relationship.
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So, men and women take the time to praise one another. Tell him or her that you appreciate what he/she does. Yes, marriage is work, but well worth it - don't you agree ?? !!
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on 10/3/2008
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