The World is Unfair to Fat People
Tags: obesity epidemic, dieting

The World is Unfair to Fat People We hear the same things over and over. “America is overweight” and “We must stop the obesity epidemic.” There are millions of studies showing how people are generally overweight. But not only does the media want to point this out, but they want to place blame on everything and everyone. Fat people are constantly criticized for their figure, except for the rare times when the media feels like being nice and posts something about how it’s ok to be fat, and often times, they really can’t help it. Let’s look at some other bodily features that humans have: Height, Skin Color, Eye Color, to name a few. We have little or no control over how tall we grow, what color our skin is, and what color our eyes are. Why? A well-known scientific aspect of life called genetics. We can try to eat the right things or hang upside down to make ourselves taller, but there’s no proof any of that make a difference. If we’re fair skinned, we can tan a lot (unless we burn easily) but skin color changes are only temporary. We can wear contacts to change our eye color, but in most people it’s an obvious fake. So why, if all other features of our body are chalked up to genetics, do we put so much blame on those who do not have the ideal body type? My argument is, although there are definitely many people out there that could be lighter than they are, many people simply cannot help being overweight. Oprah, who often goes on streaks of dieting, will always be overweight. She goes through periods of being slimmer, and I give her credit for that, but her genetic makeup will always be what society views as overweight. Just like WeeMan will always be short. I know people who disagree would argue that people have more control over their weight than height, which I totally agree with. So let’s compare it to skin color. People genetically have a given skin color. Fair, medium, dark, and so on. Someone with fair skin tone, can tan often and acquire a medium/dark skin tone, but unless they tan all year round (which is hard for most people) they will go back to being medium toned. Do people look down on them for being medium toned? No, they can’t help it. Obviously it would be hard to go tanning all year long. So now let’s analyze body fat the same way. People genetically have a given body makeup. Heavy, medium, skinny, and so on. Someone who is heavy can intensely diet/exercise often and acquire a medium/skinny body, but unless they can maintain this regimen all year round (which is hard for most people to do) they will go back to being heavy. Do people look down on them for being heavy? Yes, despite the fact that it is hard for most people to maintain weight loss habits all year long. Notice that the two are very similar except for the way they are viewed by society. How ridiculous would it be if we heard on the news every day, “Society is pale as a ghost” and “Why can’t people get outside tanning so that they’re not so pale.” If you saw a headline about “The Pale Epidemic,” I think you’d laugh, yet you (who if you’re of the majority, you’re overweight) think it is totally normal when the media does the same thing about a very similar genetic feature. So unless you’re ready to deal with the Pale Epidemic, the Body Hair Epidemic, and the Wrong Hair Color epidemic (notice the similarity to nazi germany), I suggest having more tolerance for the fat people of the world. Disclaimer: I understand that there are lazy people out there that could be less overweight, but I am talking about those that truly want to lose weight and cannot consistently keep the pounds off.

on 2/7/2008

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kylakae I guess it all boils down to treating people right. If you can be nice to people and they can be nice to you, that's about as uncomplicated as life gets in this complicated world.

Do unto others and all that schtick. ;-)
kylakae on 3/28/2008 in response to ryan

ryan Exactly, in our society a cute skinny girl could sit there eating a Big Mac and it's cute, but if an overweight person eats it people view them as slobs. When in reality, the skinny girl probably was just blessed with good jeans. There are some fat people out there who are lazy, just like there are SOME asians who can't drive, and SOME jewish people who are tight with their money, etc. But just how it's not fair to stereotype any other group of people, it should not be fair to stereotype people who are overweight as being lazy (I hope to write a post about this eventually).

Personally, I know tons of people who are just skinny no matter what. They sit there eating everything and are the laziest people ever, but they just don't get fat. Then I know overweight people that battle it every day (weight watchers, atkins diets, etc.) and somehow the best they can do is lose 5-10 lbs. Either you and I have the same group of friends or their seems to be a consistency in genetics determining weight.
ryan on 3/28/2008 in response to kylakae

kylakae Ryan, I think for the most part that obesity can be attributed to genetics and environment. It's a misconception that overweight people are by default, unfit. I know some women who run marathons who are a good 50lbs overweight. I know some thin people who couldn't accomplish that. It's sad that fat and lazy have become synonymous in our society. After all, how many thin people do we know who don't exercise and can eat anything they like? Quite a few on my end.
kylakae on 3/28/2008 in response to ryan

ryan Kyla - thanks for the in-depth comment, you really seem to understand what I'm talking about. By the way, congratulations on losing 110 lbs. - That is seriously an amazing success story (you should share how you accomplished this with the fitconnect members).

You have great points... Although there are some who are obese due to extreme laziness, there are also many that simply can't help it due to genetics, thyroid problems, and other similar circumstances. Why is it ok to bash obese people in the news every day? I think even druggies are criticized less than fat people. I commonly hear about how drug abusers "need help" while fat people are just labeled as lazy and a waste of space.
ryan on 3/28/2008 in response to kylakae

kylakae Interesting comparison. It seems as if fat is the last thing people can be prejudiced against and yet it's a growing (no pun intended) problem in the US. Just about everyone has a friend or family member who is overweight. My brother argues that short, bald men, should be included in that category.

Both the National Institutes of Health and the World Health Organization have concluded that obesity is a disease. Having lost 110 lbs myself, I know what a continuing battle it is to lose and maintain weight. It's something I'll struggle with my entire life. Food itself is certainly an addiction. Worse yet, it's an addiction you have to face every day. With drugs and alcohol you can quit. Cold turkey even, if you have the ability. You can't do that with food.
kylakae on 3/28/2008

JimB While I agree completely that there should be no discrimination against overweight people, let's not lose sight of the fact that being overweight carries lots of health risks. People should be encouraged to control their weight for their own good.
JimB on 2/12/2008

Mitch good insight
Mitch on 2/8/2008

ryan That's amazing that you lost so much weight, I know it was a slap in the face, but maybe try to look at it as a compliment since she obviously was impressed by your new look. And yes, people shouldn't be judged by their weight unless it's a bikini contest. If people want to be fat, that's fine with me. I personally like being in shape so i go to the gym, but it doesn't matter to me who else does it.
ryan on 2/8/2008

LadyLisa Your completely right. When I was overweight (I reached 220lbs) after having my son I felt like I all of a sudden became invisible and no one noticed me anymore. Although everyone always tried to be super nice about it. Yes I let myself go while I was pregnant but at least I worked hard for a year and a half and lost all the weight. But now I know how it feels. Through out that whole year me my husband and his sister and her husband hung out at this bar and we pretty much always had the same waitress and she knew who we were then a year later I walked in there like 80lbs lighter and she looked at my husband and was like who's this did you get a new girlfriend and that was like a slap in the face because I seen her like every 2nd weekend for a whole year and all of a sudden she noticed me and then everyone else in the bar did the same thing. It was like instant popularity I was someone because I wasn't over weight anymore. I mean it was nice that people noticed me again but I was kinda pissed because when I was overweight how come they couldn't treat me the same way...but honestly people who don't see people as a person are just plain insecure. One of my bestest friends is overweight but that doesn't matter to me she is an awesome friend.
LadyLisa on 2/8/2008

ryan definitely.. there are people who are fat who get skinny and vice versa. We do have some amount of control with how much we weigh. I just like to back up the people who genetically have it harder than most of us.

Genetically, I'm lucky to be naturally lean. But, for instance, I could never be the size of someone like ronnie coleman, steroids or no steroids.
ryan on 2/7/2008

Yavor Discrimination is a unfair, I agree. One cannot be blamed for having more fat cells.

Of course I know girls that used to be 220lbs and now are 120lbs. It is possible. I myself have more fat cells around my waist. I just grew up a more sedentary child. This however inspired me to take up basketball and later weight training.
Yavor on 2/7/2008


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